An invitation to an event you would have never dreamed of attending. A Craigslist ad. That thought-provoking book. SeamlessDelivery.com. A wink from a stranger at Starbucks. Zumba class. Missing the train by five minutes. Getting your heart broken.
Yes, there are a lot of things that can change your life. Or was that just mine? Hmmmm.....
Today I am excited to share with you a once in a lifetime gift that has the potential to change the outcome of the rest of your life.
I was recently given the opportunity to be part of this free transformative event The Loving Out Loud Summit: How to Improve Communication, Sustain Sexual Passion and Create Lasting Love Relationships.
My colleague Paula Smith has brought together 30+ well respected knowledgeable marriage & sex experts, speakers, authors, relationship coaches and healers to truly create a unique event that is designed to help you recognize what has been stopping you from creating the life and kind of love and relationships you want, and to teach you exactly what to do finally improve communication, deepen intimacy, experience the joy of self-affirmation, overcome fear and shame, sustain juicy sexual passion, and create thriving, lasting love relationships!
Does that sound fabulous or does that sound fabulous?
I will be one of Paula’s expert guests for this special one time virtual video event. The word on the street is that I will be teaching you how to love out loud---Italian American Style. (No Italian American ethnicity required!)
Honestly, I am honored to be a part of this group of amazing top experts. Disclaimer: We love experts are not God. We can’t promise you that an event like this will ever happen again but we can promise you that even if you don’t act now you will hear about the ripple effects about this event for months to come.
Imagine today is your day to learn . . .
· How to speak honestly and listen generously
· How to dissolve the barriers so you can let love in
· How to date with confidence
· What men want
· What women want
· To let go of negativity
· What to do to have more passionate& juicy sex
· How to have a loving relationship without giving up yourself
· How to honor yourself and truly forgive
· The ways to create a conscious partnership
· The role that your brain plays in your relationship
· How to move on from a difficult relationship
· How to see that whatever you dreamed of, hoped for in your life is happening now!
...... and end all the other things that you do that hold you back from having the relationship you always longed for and becoming a supportive partner and soaring in a life of limitless possibilities and confidence.
This summit will touch you whether you have been recently divorced, struggling to find the right partner, chronically single, dealing with infidelity, struggling to overcome addictions, living in too much DRAMA, having difficulty letting go, dealing with shame and codependency, in a good enough relationship, or deepening an already successful and thriving relationship.
Oh, and if you are caught up in the painful struggle of heartbreak as a result of the failure to get over your ex? You NEED this summit!
In the meantime, you also need a copy of my book, How To Get Over Your Ex: A Step By Step Guide To Mend A Broken Heart Italian American Style. Because, I can help you get over that s**t. Like Badda Bing, Badda Boom. Buy your copy here http://www.amazon.com/How-Get-Over-Your-Heart-Italian/dp/1626469628
Now about that summit…..
It is filled with mind and body transforming secrets, strategies, deep wisdom, and a treasure trove of experiences from the world’s top experts that will strike your heart and hurl you into action.
CLICK here to learn how you can get started now! http://lovingoutloud2014.com/rachelrusso
Because, why not? I don’t know about you, but to me, there are few things more valuable for your love life than being able to tap into the minds of these experts. To gain insight from people who not only overcame their own personal challenges, but gained extreme knowledge and helped thousands of people just like you, and then became leading experts in their field.
You can literally extract what you need to motivate, transform and succeed in creating the intimacy, love and the life you always wanted.
If any of this resonates with you then this event is 100 percent for you and the best part is, unlike love, it won’t cost you a thing.
Now, don’t be a stingy stunad (like your ex) and keep all this juicy information to yourself. Would you be a sweetheart and share my post with the friends and family members you know and love who would benefit from this event?
Feel free to post it all over your Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Google + accounts. Because sharing is caring + good karma. The more the merrier.
If you are ready to change your life forevs, please join me at the Loving Out Loud Summit.
Kindly leave any comments or questions below.
When someone in a relationship feels like his or her partner is not paying enough attention to them, there may come a day when he or she will cheat.
Because when they chat with others on Facebook, log in to an online dating site, or walk into the bar, they realize there exits a whole world of people who would love to pay them mind.
Sometimes cheaters do it for the experience of boosting their self-esteem. After all, it feels good to have someone interesting and attractive both interested and attracted to them.
Sometimes they do it for revenge on a cheating partner. (Cause two can play that game!)
Sometimes they do it because they crave the novelty of being with someone else. This breed of cheaters is often not only bored with their partner, but with life in general.
Sometimes people stray because they are genuinely in love with someone else and simply can’t stop themselves.
And sometimes, cheaters cheat because they can. For seemingly no good reason at all.
But the truth: There’s always a reason for such an indiscretion .
Men don’t just take their rings off and go out into the singles scene for no reason at all. Women don’t have emotional and sexual affairs just because they are looking to pass the time.
The difference between cheaters and non-cheaters is this: The non-cheaters are either satisfied enough with what they have at home or are not unsatisfied enough with what they have to break the contract of their relationships.
The cheaters have no regard for the promises they made. They just do what they want. Whether it is once, twice, or for ten years at a time.
Some get caught. Some don’t. Some feel guilty. Some only feel guilty because they got caught. Some cheaters feel justified. Some would understand why they feel justified—especially if they are in situations like this.
Some cheaters can be reformed. Many will cheat again and again. (Especially when they cheated with you. Because they will cheat on you, right?) Some marriages will dissolve. Others will live on—happily or unhappily.
In this day and age, there are a lot of cheaters out there, and a lot of reasons why people cheat.
What do you think is the real down and dirty truth about why people cheat? Do you think men and women cheat for different reasons? Leave your comments on the blog.
Want to break up with a cheater? Contact me at Rachel@RachelRusso.com for information on my new coaching programs that will help you get over your cheating ex. Pick up your copy of my book, How To Get Over Your Ex: A Step By Step Guide To Mend A Broken Heart—Italian American Style, here.
At some point in your life, you will probably have to look for a job, place to live, or person to love.
Sometimes, you may even end up looking for all three simultaneously. As people call you cray-cray.
Whether you intend to or not, you might get stressed out. Let’s face it, life transitions and searches for that which can potentially make or break your happiness are pretty, ummm, stressful.
Recently, I sat down with Heather Cooper, a seasoned Licensed Real Estate Salesperson at Town Real Estate, and I realized that we speak a common language. In other words, there are things that Heather and I both “get” that could help those searching for a home and/or someone to come home to—especially in good ol’ NYC. Clearly, there are similarities between what she does in real estate and I do as a matchmaker. Not to mention, the parallels we share with those who have a career in human resources!
Whether you are looking for a career change, apartment, or your last first date, keep in mind the following not-so-secret-secret for success: You could have already found something great if you would only stop being so damn picky. And you should probably just stop already, because the grass isn’t always greener.
Don’t get me wrong, I am not suggesting that you settle. Knowing your must-haves, preferences, and deal breakers are the key to finding happiness in whatever it is that you are looking for. But having a laundry list of unrealistic criteria isn’t.
Heather and I both know what it takes to get our clients the home or relationship of their dreams, but sometimes our clients have no idea. Surely, we try to bring their sky-high expectations down to earth as we build a rapport with them.
In the real estate world, people typically want what is priced much higher than their budget allows and they don’t always understand that they can’t get it at the price they want. Heather says: “Everyone wants bells and whistles, but they don’t want to pay for bells and whistles.” She strives to give clients what they want but also sees it as her job to encourage them to be a little more open minded. This can mean anything from asking them to think about an apartment on York Ave to encouraging them to reconsider swearing off walkups forever. She finds that people can find a place that makes them happy if they bend just a little bit.
Likewise, as a modern day love broker, I am all too familiar with the lists that single men and women cling to. I know countless men and women who want to date those significantly younger, richer, thinner, and/or more attractive without bringing something to the table that is desirable for such people. These are the guys who make themselves five inches taller on their Match.com profile, hoping they can compensate with a fancy dinner. And the women who hope their beautifully-lined- big-brown-eyes will distract a guy from the twenty extra pounds that weren’t apparent in their Tinder photos. Newsflash: This never happens.
Lately more than ever, I encourage people to think outside the list and be open to new possibilities. I find that some of my clients initially have problems trusting me to know what is good for them. But after a while they come around and see that anyone I introduce them to might just turn out to be the one that they never knew they always wanted.
The truth is: Sometimes you never know.
Did you ever find something great in your personal or professional life by being less picky? Please share your comments on this blog post below.
As always, if you are looking for love, contact me at Rachel@RachelRusso.com to be considered for my database of eligible bachelors and bachelorettes.
If you are looking for a NYC real estate professional who will deliver, you can learn more about
Heather at the link here http://www.townrealestate.com/representatives/heather-m-cooper-700/. Contact her at HCOOPER@TOWNREALESTATE.COM
Ever notice how everyone is always trying to be someone
in the city?
In the modern day world of social media and selfies, everyone is always looking to promote some product, service, brand, charity, song, show, team, or part of themselves.
We are all just begging to get our message heard instead of drowned out in a sea of noise.
We are all just trying to be eligible for something or the other. Whether the competition is in business, on the court, or at the speed dating event, we all just strive to find our unique edge.
So we can stand out. And get a little (or a lot) of attention, for God's sake.
How are you doing with that? Are you being heard? Or are you being ignored?
Are your friends literally blocking your Facebook posts? Are potential suitors just passing you by on the streets?
Are women routinely letting your calls go to voicemail?
If you are looking for success in love and life, you must be seen and heard.
I will be seen and heard this Sunday, June 8th, at 12PM EST on Lorraine Adam's "Eligible In The City" show on MeeMee TV.
You can tune into my MeeChat and get some free dating and relationship advice by visiting this site http://meemee.tv/shows/featured/169.
I will share some insider dating and relationship tips with men and women who want to be "eligible" for amazing
relationships with amazing people.
Hope you'll join me this Sunday afternoon. (I promise it will be a good time!)
And, hey, if you reaaaally want to stand out, you can easily broadcast your stuff with your own channel.
Start one now at no cost to you. http://meemee.tv/
Here's to being eligible!
Do you feel like it is a struggle to get attention in business and you love life? Where do you wish you could stand out from the crowd more? Share your comments below.