Yeah, I know what you are thinking: I would have liked to have a breakup bonfire!
It seems sooo California though. Do people actually do this on the NYC beaches? (By the way, sorry to be so New York-centric, I know NYC isn’t always the center of The Universe for everyone!)
Confession: I never heard of a breakup bonfire until a sassy, blonde-haired writer by the name of Amy-Rose Lane contacted me with an article she wrote, titled “ 5 Fierce Ways To Get Over A Breakup”.
Being a fierce female who has done her share of coaching people through breakups-more so since I published my second book, How To Get Over Your Ex: A Step By Step Guide To Mend A Broken Heart Italian American Style- I had to check out her breakup advice.
Much to my delight, Lane’s advice is on point and in line with some of the things I’d suggest to anyone suffering from a broken heart. And breakup bonfires as a means of “complete extermination” from your ex? Brilliant!
Seriously, read her article now. If she doesn’t have you at breakup bonfire, she’ll definitely have you at “prime pillow real estate”.
So, about that prime pillow real estate….............
If you had a recent breakup and are looking to get back into the dating game to, umm, fill your vacancy, the struggle is real.
As I know from my professional experience working with singles for the last ten years in the dating & matchmaking industry, as well as from my own post-split- reality-date-a-thon as Ms New York of 3six5dates.com, moving forward usually isn't easy.
With that in mind, I am doing a live Q & A webinar on Monday, July 27th, at 9PM EST on the topic “ What To Expect When You Start Dating Again” for members of Exaholics.com.
Want to join us? Just visit the site and sign up. Unless of course you have a bonfire to get ready for!
Did you get back into the dating game after a breakup? What did you find most challenging about it? Leave your comments below.