Dates are a dime a dozen these days. Do you really need to waste another hour of your life having drinks with someone you’ll never want to see again?
Someone who lied. About height. Weight. Age. Marital Status. Or some other gross misrepresentation.
Do you have it in you to get excited about the prospect of a relationship with someone who just swiped “yes” on Tinder because they wanted to pass some time before going shopping for cleaning products at Walmart?
Someone who didn’t get her hair blown out. Someone who will show up for your date in the same black pants he wore to the office for the past three days.
Someone who would meet you and then immediately contact their best friend with the obligatory post-date-“On to the next- text before you even made it back to your doorstep.
Can we please stop the madness?!
Stop going on all these silly dates that will never lead to relationships, and start figuring out a better way to get into the relationship you want.
You can begin by getting the online dating thing down. Because as much as you hate it, it is still one of the best, most efficient ways for you to meet qualified prospects. IF you know what you are doing. And with all due respect, nine out of ten of you don’t have a clue as to what you are doing online.
In an effort to help singles like you and those you know properly market themselves, screen candidates, and exponentially increase the chances of finding a match online, I am participating in a Summer Auction for Mental Fitness, Inc.
If you want to treat yourself to a priceless Online Dating Consultation + some Ghostwritten Glory while supporting a good cause, place your bid here. The auction closes Sunday, so get on this. Like bees to honey.
Secondly, for the love of God, quit your gig as a serial dater! Instead, invest the time you would have spent on boring dates into relationship resources that you can listen to, watch, and read.
Resources that will hit you with the cold, hard truth as to why you are really single, as well as provide you with the insight to change your patterns and attract an amazing relationship.
This week, I have two totally free, fantastic relationship resources for you.
Exhibit A: My recent video interview from the Love Out Loud Summit. It is filled with helpful advice on how you can fight back against the horrible dating scene and take a stand to get the love you want—Italian American Style. Watch it here anytime.
Exhibit B: My upcoming interview on Celestial Space Talk Radio Show with Marleny Cruz, this Saturday from 12-1PM EST. I will be in the studio with Marleny giving up all the secrets to singles and couples who want healthy, happy, relationships. Call in at 973 925 4559. See the flyer for more details or visit http://www.healthandwellnessddv.com/.
So, yeah. Hope you’ll check me out on video and radio this week. The experience just might be more fun than your last date….
Do you agree that any old date is the last thing you need? Tell me what you’d rather have in the comments below.
Ever notice how everyone is always trying to be someone
in the city?
In the modern day world of social media and selfies, everyone is always looking to promote some product, service, brand, charity, song, show, team, or part of themselves.
We are all just begging to get our message heard instead of drowned out in a sea of noise.
We are all just trying to be eligible for something or the other. Whether the competition is in business, on the court, or at the speed dating event, we all just strive to find our unique edge.
So we can stand out. And get a little (or a lot) of attention, for God's sake.
How are you doing with that? Are you being heard? Or are you being ignored?
Are your friends literally blocking your Facebook posts? Are potential suitors just passing you by on the streets?
Are women routinely letting your calls go to voicemail?
If you are looking for success in love and life, you must be seen and heard.
I will be seen and heard this Sunday, June 8th, at 12PM EST on Lorraine Adam's "Eligible In The City" show on MeeMee TV.
You can tune into my MeeChat and get some free dating and relationship advice by visiting this site http://meemee.tv/shows/featured/169.
I will share some insider dating and relationship tips with men and women who want to be "eligible" for amazing
relationships with amazing people.
Hope you'll join me this Sunday afternoon. (I promise it will be a good time!)
And, hey, if you reaaaally want to stand out, you can easily broadcast your stuff with your own channel.
Start one now at no cost to you. http://meemee.tv/
Here's to being eligible!
Do you feel like it is a struggle to get attention in business and you love life? Where do you wish you could stand out from the crowd more? Share your comments below.