Hey You,

If you are like most of the singles I work with, you are at a loss for words when strangers at cocktail parties ask you how a nice man/lady such as yourself is unattached. After all, you are college-educated, gainfully employed, and surrounded by a great circle of friends. You even do cardio three times per week! Yet, somehow, your first dates don't turn into second dates. You find it difficult to connect with someone that excites you. When you do connect, it's not long before you discover that he's getting back with his ex, she really likes girls, or he's just, well, you know, not that into you. Maybe you are in a relationship, but you have that nagging feeling that something is missing. Part of you thinks this is as good as it gets, and the other part envisions much more.

Full disclosure: I'm happy you are here, hungry for some real love. It means you still have a glimmer of hope. A shot of faith. A precious chance. If you are ready-or almost ready-to realize your incredible power to change your life and find happiness like you've never known it, welcome aboard! Somewhere between 2007-when I began practicing as a Relationship Coach- and today, I've realized that an initial consultation with a professional such as myself can be both scary and exciting. (It sure beats a trip to the dentist!) Actually, it's a lot like a trip to the beach, if you will. First off, it's okay to feel vulnerable. No matter how perfect you are, like most bathing-suit clad beach goers, you may feel a bit exposed. Even supermodels have some flaws they'd like to hide. I'm not here to judge you. I want to help you by learning all I can about you and your goals- at your own pace. Most likely, you will feel at ease from our very first phone conversation, which is always free of charge and commitment. When we start our work together, you don't have to plunge headfirst into the ocean. You just have to be willing to get your feet wet.

Soon, we'll create a personalized plan that best suits your needs, budget, and schedule. I'll take the time to get to know exactly what you are looking for in a partner before I make any suggestions. I can't give you the tools to set you up for success until I have a deep appreciation of what success means to you. (Come on now, we can't all wear the same sunscreen!) Perhaps, if you live in the tri-state area, we'll have most of our sessions in person at a location of your choice, or maybe you'd rather receive coaching through the phone or via the Internet. Want a preview of what our work together may involve? My services include, but are not limited to:

Personal and Relational Branding: Are your life and relationships reflective of who you truly are and what you desire in a partnership? If the answer is no, we may need to figure out if the image you are projecting or the relationship you are in needs a transformation. I can help you overcome obstacles- like the red flags and patterns you are blind to- that rob you of your self-confidence and relational bliss. Through coaching, you'll discover who you were meant to be and increase your chances of finding and keeping the one(s) meant for you.

Matchmaking Consultation: If you need help determining who you'd like to attract and where you might find him or her, I will assist you in creating a very detailed description of your ideal partner, as well as a Relationship Vision. I can suggest a plan of action which may include online dating sites, matchmaking services, speed-dating/singles events, and personal introductions. I will even act as your "virtual matchmaker" by handpicking matches from online dating sites based on my understanding of compatibility and personality. (This comes in handy for many busy professionals.)

Online Dating Profile/Ad Creation and Makeovers: If you aren't attracting the type of people you hoped to online, chances are your profile could use anything from a little tweaking to a total makeover. Truth be told, there is an actual art to creating and remaking an online dating profile. Hint: It doesn't involve a string of adjectives or justifications for dating on the Internet! (Yes, we know, your best friend met his wife on Match.com, so you figured you have nothing to lose!) Allow me to ask you the magic questions and extract the juicy details that will make you irresistible to you potential matches. If you need help crafting your letters of introduction, I can do that too.

Wingwoman Extraordinaire: I'm available to facilitate introductions for both men and women in a variety of social settings. Whether you have difficulty approaching people or just have better luck meeting dateable prospects with a teammate, I can make observations, offer you some pointers, and most importantly, break the ice. I have accompanied past clients to cultural and singles events, parties, coffeehouses, bars/loungers, galleries, health clubs, lectures, charity, functions, etc. I am open to any type of venue or even just a stroll through the park.

I'll be your coach for as long as your heart desires, but just like the life guards at the beach, I can't always be there to hold your hand. ( I am, however, available after-hours if you need an emergency text-a-thon or pep talk before a date!) My goal is always to empower you to be able to conquer the world with or without me by your side.

My strengths-based, solution-focused approach to coaching, which has been inspired by my clinical training in post-modern therapies, will leave you confident and optimistic about your future.

I will teach you what to do when that inevitable wave knocks you down. Before we know it, you'll safely carry yourself to the shore and walk into the sunset-with the love of your life!

Love, Rachel Russo

PS: Let's get started now! Fill out the form below, and I'll contact you within 48 hours.