Have you ever been so frustrated at your significant other that you could barely speak to him or her? Stonewalling is not cool, you guys....
Or looked at your phone and thought: Damn. I don't even have any guy or girl in here that I'm actually excited to text?! Not to mention call to tell a funny story to in the middle of the day or fall asleep talking to on the phone at night! For those of us who actually call and still like that old-fashioned love, of course.
Yeah, I've been there too. And I know a lot of you are feeling frustrated with your relationship-or lack thereof- like this right about now, because you are reaching out to me more than ever during this holiday season with dating and relationship questions, sharing your desire to be either matched up already or figure things out with the one you are with, for real this time.
The holidays has a way of doing this to us, because of all the stress and drama it brings up. The best general advice I can offer you is this: You have to find out what you are doing wrong and discover what you could be doing right so that you aren't in the same situation next year. Its probably not going to magically change. (Didn't you say last year was finally going to be *your* year?!) This is why I am a huge advocate of any type of life or dating/relationship coaching.
I know everyone may not be able to afford to hire me as a matchmaker or dating/relationship coach right now, so I'm trying something new to be able to help more people at a lower price point. Do you want to receive my personalized advice via text, phone chat, or video? Well it just got easier than ever, because I just joined up as a Love Advisor on Instantgo. It is a free app that you can download in the ITunes App Store and pay to have me answer your questions in real time! If you need answers now and/or are on a budget, this is perfect for you. You can totally control how much you spend and no longer have to wait for me to confirm an appointment for a coaching session.
I filmed a quick, impromptu video for you today explaining how it works. So check that out here. It's truly my passion and pleasure to help people in the fight for love, so don't hesitate to reach out. Just download the app and find my username, rachel,russo. You can read my bio that covers my expertise, background, and prices here.
I promise to give you my most honest, sound, and professional advice during the holidays and always. So get on this today, tomorrow, or whenever your heart desires.
And in the meantime: Happy Holidays!
Well, hello, Handsome/Gorgeous!
I am currently on a plane ride home from an amazing "Happiness Retreat" at the awe-inspiring and luxurious Sanctuary at Camelback Mountain Resort & Spa in Paradise Valley, Arizona. It was my first time there, and I must say I loved the resort as well as exploring Scottsdale and Sedona! I felt compelled to share a few posts about my magical experience on my Instagram page here.
But, as always, my sharing of all this isn't so much about ME, but about me inspiring YOU! And sometimes, I need to do things that make my heart happy-for me-and also for me to keep the inspiration flowing toward your love life.
Happiness, like love, can be a bit elusive. Many believe that the more you look for it, the less likely you are to find it. Well, I am not one of those people!
When people say that someone found love when they least expected it, I doubt that they know what was going on internally for that person. Do they really know how they may have been shaping their life behind the scenes to invite love in? Can they really understand the psychological, spiritual, and emotional preparation that isn't often easily visible or shared?
I mean....Helllooooo! Just because you aren't on an online dating site or working with a matchmaker doesn't mean you aren't actually looking for love! Also, just because you said you weren't looking for love doesn't mean that it wasn't what you wanted deep down. Loving Newsflash: We all want to be loved--even those who are most scared of it or no longer believe its possible. Beneath the surface of a claim of being "done" with love, is usually a person who hasn't fully healed from past heartbreak and is trying everything to protect himself/herself from being hurt again.
This holiday season, I am taking some more strides in the fight for love for my clients, fans, and friends, by sharing something very special that I have created just for all of you--at no cost to you. Yup, this is the first of my holiday gifts to you--stay tuned for more next week!
This gift is exciting! I have created a roll! A new kind of "roll", which I describe as a visually pleasing and highly inspiration collection of my favorite resources-to jumpstart your relational bliss for 2018.
In How to Love Again: Creating A Healthy Relationship After Heartbreak: A Relationship Expert's Arsenal to Win In The Battlefield of Love: I am sharing my favorite resources on the best ways to find love, how to rebuild after a breakup, and how to manage a romantic relationship.
Want a summary of what is included before you dive in to the content? By viewing my complimentary roll, you will learn:
- 5 super important things to look for in a partner
- advice on how to be your own matchmaker
- how the dating industry really works
- unique ways to handle a breakup
- how to truly get over your ex
- compelling quotes to restore your faith in love
-qualities of a person who is capable of unconditional love
-signs that your partner doesn't care enough
-the first date strategy that will always work
-questions you can ask to make your partner fall deeply in love with you
-what to do when your partner ignores you via text
Oh.....and 25 relationship problems that are pretty much universal! Because just like we all want love, we all have our sharing of problems when it comes to matters of the heart!
So, in between the holiday shopping and festivities, I hope you will take a moment to focus on the gift I am giving you that can help you give the greatest gift of all to yourself: Love.
Have a look at How to Love Again: Creating A Healthy Relationship After Heartbreak: A Relationship Expert's Arsenal to Win In The Battlefield of Love and please feel free to email me your feedback here.