Everyone knows that couple. A glimpse at their typical dinner conversation resembles that of two monks at a silent retreat.
While the optimists among us would say they are comfortable with silence, the pessimists would say they don't have a damn thing to talk about. A realist would conclude such a couple would have a hella lot more discussion at night if they filled their day with the work, hobbies, and causes they are passionate about! There, I said it: Find your passion; improve your love life!
Whether you are currently single or have been married for years, finding or rediscovering your passion can have a greater impact on your (potential) relationship than you'd ever imagine. You are a hundred times more interesting of a person when you have strong interests outside your relationship. When you see the world through a different perspective than your partner, you have something valuable to bring to the table. And when you become your dream, your sex appeal increases exponentially. How do I know this? Well, I'm living proof. My passion has always been writing. When I'm in my "flow" I pick up everything from guys on the bus and subway who see me penning my next book to dates and spouses for my ghostwriting clients on Match.com. (By the way, those subway guys better watch out, or they might end up in my novel.)
Ever since, I published How To Get Over Your Ex: A Step By Step Guide To Mend A Broken Heart Italian American Style, it is like my magnetic field expanded in so many ways. Not only am I getting tons of media opportunities to spread my message about the power of Italian American culture in mending a broken heart, like I did in this interview with Dating Coach, Polina Solda , but I am even being interviewed about my passion for writing. (If you are curious about my thoughts on the craft or want advice on getting started in self publishing check out this print interview. )
With all this media attention comes a boost in self-esteem and you guessed it, more lovin in the romance department! I must say: It is nice to get all this male attention simply for being me and doing something I love.
Now, you'll have to excuse me, all this flow just made me pass up my bus stop.........
Autographed copies of How To Get Over Your Ex: A Step By Step Guide To Mend A Broken Heart Italian American Style are now available at The BookMark Shoppe with free shipping until the end of 2014. Call 718 833 5115 to order.