Screen Men Like A Professional Matchmaker & Find Real Love

Learn to vet the men you meet on dating sites and apps--without wasting time, emotional energy, and the best years of your life.

You Probably Know How …….

Finding a good man-who is truly looking for a real relationship and is also a good match for you- on an online dating app is like finding a needle in a haystack, right? 

It was hard enough to find a diamond in the rough-let alone a real gem-before Covid 19 interrupted the dating game as we knew it!  

​Am I going to be able to date?
Will men actually be looking for serious relationships?
Are my dreams of marriage and babies going to be on hold until 2022?
Should I answer my ex’s “just checking in” text? (Probably not if you expect anything amazing to come out of if. But, do as you will, and you know, proceed with caution!)

If Only You Met Mr. Right---Right Before Quarantine …….

I’m willing to bet that a part of you has some awareness that online dating is one of the best ways a woman can meet her match--especially in the days of the pandemic and its aftermath. If you are like most single women I know, another part of you wishes this wasn’t true. Because you’d prefer not to swipe your way to your future husband. Why can’t he just find me? 
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You either tried it and disliked the process or heard the horror stories. Boring small talk with strangers? Responses forty-eight hours later? Guys who ghost?  How about those **** pics? Dates with men who look nothing like their photos? Six month relationships with men who turn out to be….married?

Yeah, Online Dating Sucks--But Not For The Women Who Know How To Quickly Expose Men For Who They Are ……….

Let me tell you a secret: Online dating can be disappointing, draining, and downright hellish. Or it can be empowering, enjoyable, and a successful way to find the love of your life. And the quality of your experience has less to do with your profile-though, don’t get me wrong, you need flattering photos and a solid write-up-and more to do with how well you vet men.

Too many dating experts blame women for being single. Let’s look at why you aren’t attracting quality men online, they say. Yes, okay, you might be texting men long paragraphs that turn them off. Your inability to feel sexy in your own skin may be ruining your flirting game. You likely have some limiting beliefs about dating and relationships that are influencing your behavior. But, also:  There are a lot of men out there who just plain suck. There, I said it!  It is not your fault that ….

There are men out there who are not who they say they are. Men who are not honest about their relationship status or what they are looking for. Men who fail to communicate their true feelings. Men who do not call when they say they will. Men who lie about anything and everything to charm you out of your pants. 

But, you know what will be your fault?  Wasting weeks, months, and years of your life involved with men who you didn’t properly screen for authenticity, honesty, trustworthiness, and compatibility when I am telling you right now: You don’t have to go into relationships blindly anymore!

​True Story: I’ve wasted my time, makeup, tears, and years on men who just weren’t for me too. Some of them weren’t for anyone, but I digress. I have seen too many of my female clients, friends, and friends of friends go through heartbreak with guys who should have never made it past the third date. But, no more! 
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I can’t change your past or mine, but what I can do is help you to think like a matchmaker and screen these boys like it's your job!  Because it is. You have to protect your life and your heart. If you don’t, who will?

Check this out: My fifteen year matchmaking and dating coaching career, plus my practice as a Marriage & Family Therapist, coupled with my own dating and relationship history-which includes once going on ninety-two dates in one year and writing about it-has me vetting men on a whole other level. Think CIA agent, but better…

Why keep my online dating hacks and matchmaking secrets to myself when I could spare so many women  the pain that so many of us ladies already experienced? Sometimes, we teach what we needed to learn. Sometimes one little thing that an expert shares can change the course of one’s life forever. 

In the spirit of sharing my proprietary vetting system that I’ve used to match my clients, friends, and myself, let me tell you how this can serve you.

​Vetting Men Like A Matchmaker Will Help You To:
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• Identify online dating red flags

 

• Quickly figure out which men to eliminate and which men to focus on

 

• Find out what men are really looking for online

 

• Pay attention to clues about a man’s relationship attachment style

 

• Dissect men to get to the core of who they are at lightning speed

 

• Take back your power by taking control of your online dating experience

 

• Enjoy the process of getting to know dating prospects

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• Find your gem--real love, marriage, babies, happily ever after, whatever your heart desires

Bonus: Significantly decrease your chances of falling in love with a man who will never commit 

Or commit and then cheat on you with the nanny…...

Because No Woman Regrets Learning How To Get What She Wants From Men

Introducing An All New Master Class

How To Vet Men Like A Matchmaker & Find Your Gem Online

​Learn how to screen online dating prospects for authenticity, honesty, trustworthiness, and compatibility so you never (or never again!)  waste your time and emotional energy on a counterfeit relationship.

In this Master Class, You’ll Learn How To:

• Read what a man’s online dating profile and photos are really saying about him
  
  
• Do a reputation/background check to confirm authenticity and honesty
  
  
• Understand what his communication style reveals about his relationship attachment style
  
  
• Ask questions that will tell you what you really need to know about him--and how to ask them without making him feel you are interrogating him
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• Distinguish which men are relationship-ready and which have casual interest 
  
  
• Spot a man with commitment issues or other red flags
  
  
• Get him to share his values in initial conversation and quickly determine if you are a match
  
  
• Crack him open and find out his core issues from past relationships
  
  
• Test his interest in you--without silly games or manipulation tactics
  
  
• Evaluate potential suitors in a way that honors you and your feminine energy
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• Empower yourself so you can enjoy online dating until you find your gem

You Should Sign Up If:  

You are ready to meet the love of your life---and do not want to waste another minute on a man who will lie, cheat, or otherwise be not good enough for you.

Register for This Master Class

​To purchase the course, please email [email protected] for payment instructions.

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