Life is good! Today, I get to experience a matchmaker's dream day! Just got the news that one of my clients proposed to the lovely lady I introduced him to eighteen months ago!
On top of that, I am being considered as a love expert for an interesting new reality show, and I am co-hosting an event tonight with EZ Dating Coach in my home-state of NJ! The event is for single ladies who are looking for-you guessed it- their happily-ever after. (It takes place at Hoboken's Little Town Social, 7:30PM, and you can just show up for an awesome He Said/She Said discussion on love and commitment.) In the meantime, I wanted to share three very important steps for the ladies who want a man to propose......
Step 1: Pick the RIGHT guy.
I could say a lot about who the right guy is or isn't for any given client, friend, or stranger who just told me her life story at the bar. Without a doubt, the decision of whom to marry is as important and personalized as decisions get. Husbands are not one-size-fits-all. But one thing that is true about the right guy every time: He's the guy who loves you for you and is ready to commit to creating and maintaining a successful relationship with you.
Step 2: Start the relationship as you wish for it to continue.
We all know stories of men and women who are on their best behavior during the first few months of the relationship. After they get comfortable, their true colors start to come out. If you want a relationship that will last, it is important to initially present yourself as you truly will be for the long term. Men like consistency. If you make an effort to stay fit and dress sexy for the first few months, he will not be thrilled when you cancel your gym membership and start wearing frumpy nightgowns to bed! Its not just about looks though. The key is creating the dynamic and expressing yourself in the way that is genuinely you--from the start.
Step 3: Convince your man that there is no one better for him than you.
Don't worry--there is no sleazy sales pitch required! If you pick the right man and be yourself throughout the relationship, you will not be a tough sell. If you make your man feel understood as well as show him respect, loyalty, and love, you will be adding incredible value to his life. It won't be (too!) long until he realizes that his life is much better with you in it. Pretty soon, he'll find that he can't imagine his life without you!
Want to work with me and become another success story?! Send me an email at Rachel@RachelRusso.com and let me know how I can help you create the love you want today!