Happy 4th of July, my Luvahs!
In honor of Independence Day, I have been spending some quality time having summer fun with friends and family, as well as working from home in the sunshine. Today, I did something thinking about how I could help ya'll experience freedom in your love life.
So, listen, here's what I came up with....If you want to be free in love, please do as follows:
1. Stop living in a self-imposed prison. Your negative thoughts. Your limiting beliefs. The patterns that you keep repeating. All the things that keep you stuck in that relationship you need to move on from. Or the things that prevent you from even getting into a relationship in the first place. Yeah, get rid of all that garbage. Clean house and let go of the people and all the "stuff" that no longer serve you. Its the only way to make space for what does.
2. Listen to your heart. Are you at risk of getting distracted by all the noise? And, no, I am not talking about fireworks! Everyone has an opinion on your love life, right? Can you get quiet enough to hear yours? What does your heart want? Does your heart really want you to date or stay with the person who looks good on paper but doesn't make it skip a beat? Accept what you want in love, and go for it already! You can't have freedom in love unless you are authentic. And you can't be authentic when you are listening to everyone else but yourself. That being said, if you are so confused that you can't trust your own voice, do not listen to your voice. Call me; listen to mine!
3. Don't be afraid to get hurt.
As suggested in this really helpful article that I came across in Elephant Journal, vulnerability is some scary s**t! But it is absolutely a pre-requisite for real love! You have to be your true self in a relationship and share how you really feel, even and especially when you are afraid of rejection. This is easier said than done, but do it if want to let freedom ring in dating and relationships. You just have to.
In the meantime, have a great holiday!
PS: I'm offering a holiday special for the week of July4th-11th. All coaching packages advertised on my website here-normally priced at $250-300-will be offered for just $125 when booked as a "Special Session" before July 1, 2017. Book your session here now or email me at Rachel@RachelRusso.com with any questions.