A Public Service Announcement For All Men

First and foremost.......
Let it be known that I am not looking for an opportunity to "bash" the male species.

As I wrote in a Facebook post today, I am not a man-hater; I actually like, respect. and work successfully with many men as a matchmaker and dating/relationship coach. Yes, I do feel drawn to the cause of empowering women in love and life-as we are still at a disadvantage in many ways- but that doesn't mean I want to take the power away from men. The power can be shared, people! And its probably best when shared too....

That being said, when it is time to point a finger at men, it is time to point a finger at men
So,guys, listen up. I am going to speak for (almost!) all women in this public service announcement. 

We are sick and tried of putting up with your shit. 
In other words, when you do the same thing for the 997th time, it is really annoying. Not only because the behavior itself is annoying, but because chances are we've told you at least 498 times that it bothers us, and you have told us at least 498 times that you were sorry and would do better. 

We've probably told you this in at least 249 different ways. Because, we probably gave you the benefit of the doubt the first 124 times. Like maybe you simply didn't know that our text response of "K" meant we thought you should jump off a bridge and die. .Cause after all, men aren't mind readers, right? So then we started telling you in the form of eloquently stated emails, texts, or good old fashioned conversations. But you didn't get that either. And, so, we resorted to sending photos like this. Since men are so visual and all......

Speaking of photos, it is absolutely not, never was, and never will be okay for you to engage in "revenge porn" against an ex--especially when a child is involved.  In case you are living under a rock or have more important things to do than follow the drama between people like Rob Kardashian and Blac Chyna, this term refers to posting explicit photos of an ex on social media. Disgraceful, disrespectful, and downright abusive--no matter what your ex did to you.

​​​​​​​And this is exactly why we don't want to send you "sexy" pics.....

Come on guys, cut the crap! Stop objectifying women. Stop treating us like disposable commodities. Stop thinking you can do whatever you want and that we will forgive you because you are hot, rich, good in bed--or whatever else you think you are. 

Treat women like you want to be treated. Show some respect. Have some manners and class. Love. Okay? Just, love.