How To Know If They Really Love You

One of the hardest and most beautiful things to define is: Love.

As you may have learned, love means different things to different people, and people express love in different ways. Sometimes, it is easier to define something by defining its' opposite. 

When there is a lack of love, I KNOW it. I can see it in the relationships of friends, clients, and strangers. Can you?

Its funny how we can so clearly see something about someone else's relationship, yet fail to see that very same thing in our own. 

As they say, love is blind. Yup. I've been there too. 

I totally hate to see people stay stuck in relationships that seem likely to turn into an epic fail, because their partner just isn't invested or caring enough.

Don't you hate when they don't get it? To the point where you just want to shake them? 

Some relationships are just a lost cause, and it is often because one person loves too much and the other doesn't love enough.

Just in case the person who loves too much is YOU-or someone you care about-I wanted to pass on a recently published Bustle article that I was quoted in.

Check out 5 Signs Your Partner Doesn't Care Enough About You, According To An Expert if you-or a friend-just isn't getting the love deserved.

Disclaimer: Reading this article might make you want to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, divorce your husband or wife, try to save your relationship, or never fall in love with someone who can't love enough again.

To that I say: Kudos to you!