"It Is What It Is" & Other Lies You Tell Yourself

If you thought you were destined to a life of single-hood because you believed that you had some inherent flaw that made you undesirable--would you ever even go on a date?

Or would you throw your hands up in the air and repeat that mostly tired, useless cliche that I so often cringe when hearing?

You know: "It is what it is". Okay, sometimes it really is what it is, but in many instances, its a lie. Its a story that you tell yourself that keeps you lazy and helpless in love and life.

Although I wholeheartedly believe in the power of accepting things when circumstances are beyond our control, I believe that a lot of what we tell ourselves about what can be changed is a lie. Some things can't be changed, but some can--in a huge way.  Heck, its known these days that we can even change gene expression....

Thinking that you lack the power to transform your love life is NOT TRUE! It is simply a lie.

Just like: Santa Claus. A gay man married to a woman. The idea that you don't have to do your nails for Date Night. Or the notion that its easy to get over someone like this teen "seemed" to.  The stories we tell ourselves hold us back. They keep us from ending a relationship, finding a relationship, or making a relationship as fulfilling as it can be. Not to mention that they keep us "stuck" in many other ways....

Are you aware of all the lies that you are currently telling yourself?  And a question of equal importance: Do you know the cost of telling them?

Are you sick of lying to yourself? Want to figure out how to get what you want in your love life by ditching the stories that are no longer serving you?
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