Why You Can’t Attract The Right Guy

Isn’t dating ironic?

You have all these men lining up to date you, yet the one you want to date is nowhere to be found! Most people would look at you and point out that you are beautiful,  personable, smart, accomplished, and with a great circle of family and friends. They couldn’t imagine why you wouldn’t be happily married with 2.5 kids and a penthouse suite by now—let alone wrap their heads around the idea of you having trouble finding a man. 

But you aren’t looking for “a” man. You are looking for YOUR man! And you are probably wondering: How can I attract the right guy?

You can be the catch of the century,  but if you can’t communicate who you are to the man you desire, you’ll be as irrelevant as that “Dusty” creeping in your DMs.

In other words, you need to understand your value in the dating game and in life, in general.  You have a lot of strengths. But do you know which once you should play up to get attention from the right guys?

Once you are strong in who you are at your core, you can position yourself in a way that demands attention from the type of men you are wishing would notice what you have to offer! (Bonus: Once you take that stand and make it known, you’ll repel some of those Mr. Wrongs who just liked you for superficial reasons.)

Before you even think about accepting an introduction from a friend, putting yourself on a dating site, or attending an event where your “type” may be, there is something you need to be know about yourself.

Its your relationship hook. Its that one thing that is EVERYTHING.  Its what keeps him coming back for more—and, sorry,  lady, it has nothing to do with sex. Your “game” isn’t that special, and it is not what makes him emotionally invested in you for the long term.
For the record, its not your Botox either. Botox may get the guy, but it sure won’t keep him.

If you want more than a “hook up” and want to hook the man of your dreams so that you can have the connection, love, and stability you crave, there is something you need to know. Most women don’t know it.

​But you don’t have to be like most women……

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