A Wedding, A Breakup & A Mid-Life Love

I attended my cousin's wedding this week in Northern, NJ; I had a wonderful time with family--including my mother and sister, pictured with me here.

Weddings have a way of causing us to reflect upon our own happily-ever-after- or lack thereof- don't they?  Do you ever wonder what the secret is to finding a quality partner and creating a sustainable, fulfilling love life? 

While I don't have it all figured out, I have a lot of insight on this "secret". The truth is, there are strategies that can help anyone improve his or her love life--no matter who they are or what their age is.

Let’s face it. Many believe that age makes finding love harder. Being in the second half of life and getting “back out there” can feel daunting.  I work with many clients in a matchmaking and dating coaching capacity who have struggled to start over as a single in midlife.  Getting over exes and breakups is half the battle. 

But, gosh, it seems so hard for many to just find someone appealing who offers basic respect and genuine interest these days. If you fall into this category and have been dealing with these types for too long, check out my thoughts on how to move forward here.

With divorce rates skyrocketing and people feeling more dissatisfied in partnership than ever before, and being in midlife after multiple sucky relationships, I understand why one would think it isn’t possible to have a fulfilling relationship let alone find one so late in life.  But this isn't true; it is just a limiting belief.

Click here to read more what I have to say about limiting beliefs at this time.

Would you rather hear me talk about how to have dating success in midlife? You can check out my episode on a recent podcast, Midlife Love Out Loud: Your One Stop Love Shop, hosted by my friend and colleague, Junie Moon, the Love Coach. This podcast could be a great resource for you! 

Midlife Love Out Loud offers topics for women-which could also be helpful for men-like: 

• How to have healthy communication and less drama 
• How to create bedroom bliss and get your needs met 
• How to date successfully online 
• How to find quality men that want to show up for you  
• How to experience real intimacy where you deeply connect and feel safe to be you 
• How to set healthy boundaries and not get resentful because you abandon your truth 

If any of this resonates, have a listen; let me know what you think!