No matter who we are or where we are from, we all have one thing in common:
We never have complete control of our circumstances in love and life. There are essentially two ways to interpret whatever it is that happens to us.
1) Setback: That moment when your life changes in an instant, you think its for the worst, and you allow yourself to go on a downward spiral that completely derails your life's mission and hurts your soul.
2) Blessing In Disguise: When you catch something that seems like a setback, find the positive in the situation, decide it will not derail you, become stronger, and go on to live your best life.
Which would you choose for your life? Because how you view things is your choice. You can choose wisely or you can choose poorly.
I was intimately re-acquainted with all of this, as I had to make a big choice recently. After that crazy eclipse, life threw me a curveball that compromised my safety at in my apartment in Brooklyn. I'll spare you the details, but I had to move. Like overnight. In fact, the situation was so stressful that I had to hire a security service, Guard Security, so that I could put my mind at ease. FYI: I'd totally recommend this company if you ever need a little extra protection, as they were very accommodating and affordable.
Anyway, in an instant, I knew my life would be changed for ever. After almost losing it-ha-I chose to let everything empower me. Instead of letting my world be turned upside down in a bad way, I turned into a positive for both my business and personal life. I'll be sharing more about that soon, but for now I want to share a secret....The Secret
After a difficult time, I started re-reading this powerful book. I am reminded that we absolutely have the ability to control our choices. I am also reminded of a quote on one of those Celestial Seasonings (I think?) tea bags: "Choose well. Because your choice is brief but endless." That's so true! I attribute it to The Law Of Attraction--something I will also write more about, because I know that we can all use it to tap into our own power in our love lives.
Without going into too much detail, I will say that I firmly believe The Universe will bring you positive things if you think positive thoughts. And even more positive things if you make the reframe I described above. I want to encourage you to make the shift that I just did when life throws, you too, a curveball.
From setback to blessing in disguise.
Because if you want to live the good life, that's your only option.......